Grace and Poise

Self Confidence

Ladies Self Confidence. We must have it and use it. When dealing with men in todays society you have to be at the top of your game. You have to look great at all times. Walk with confidence, know how to hold an intelliegnt conversation, you have to have your own money, and be educated. Don't be one of those woman who will except a man at any cost, scarificing you dignity and self respect just to have someone in your bed at night. I'm not saying it's not good to have one in your bed but don't sell your self short to keep him. There are men out here you know what to say and know the right time to say. They will mess your head up. The game is what I call it, telling you they care, how beautiful you are how smart you are. How they never met anyone like you before. It's  hard to trust and believe what anyone says anymore. Be careful , be wise, do your research, get to know the man, don't sleep with him on the first night, don't introduce him to your kids unless you know he's going to be around. I'm just looking out for my sisters. Benn there done that. Love you girls. Take care of yourself in the New Year.